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Neil Larsen's avatar

Facts and Justice are our Unity...we are on the side of Right..⚖️🇺🇸⚖️

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We are so tied in to the stories we tell for identity, righteousness, and what we think is the truth. The more we tell our story, the more cemented it gets into our foundation of thought, so I'm with you on your article.

The lady who cleans my house is a true Q-Anon tribal member, and she comes every couple of months. I consider it my conspiracy theory update day, so I suit up in my best tinfoil hat and welcome her in. Some people ask why I keep her, but I find her beliefs absolutely fascinating in a car wreck kind of way.

She was recently diagnosed as a type 1 diabetic. After "doing her own research", she is cemented in the belief that liver flukes caused it. I'd never heard of liver flukes, so I asked her lots of questions. For anyone else who doesn't know, liver flukes are a parasite infecting the liver and bile ducts.

She is now on a 90 day parasite cleanse, other various supplements, has taken at least one dose of Ivermectin, and eats organic. Her doctor offered to test her for liver flukes, but she said it won't show up in the results even though she saw one that exited her body. She will stick with this cleanse until her diabetes is cured. The best claim she made is that when she gets a headache, it's because all the parasites in her body are in her head peeing at the same time. I would have thought I was being punk'd, but I heard the seriousness and conviction with which she said it. She is a true believer and unwilling to give up this story because otherwise it's her gawd punishing her for her life when she was a drunk.

She told one of her type 1 diabetic clients all of this, and he laughed. She said lots of people are laughing at her over this. I didn't and she was willing to share. I was interested to hear how solid she was with her belief in the story. She is all in.

It's these kinds of stories that remind me to question my own beliefs. How tied am I to what I believe?

My skill in life has been as a story disruptor. I can hear the questions people won't ask themselves by the words they speak, so I ask them in a nonjudgmental and direct manner. There is nothing like a well-timed, good question to get someone to think. Their answer to themselves, said out loud to me, allows them to keep their story or offers up the opportunity to change it in a big or small way. Watching someone have a light bulb moment of self discovery is like shooting heroin directly into my veins, or at least as I imagine it, cuz it's the dragon I chase. I love watching people question the story they've been telling for any length of time.

If there is any question about being tied to a story, just ask multiple people about the same event. Especially ask a married couple and watch the fight that ensues for who is right.

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