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Rachel C's avatar

As a former Hospice nurse, and the daughter of an almost 99yo mother, I completely endorse your advice. Do It Now!👹

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Jack Hopkins's avatar

Thank you, Rachel, for your experienced and qualified endorsement. I do not doubt that those reading it will get an extra nudge that moves them. Many thanks!

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Mindy Montgomery's avatar

You should do another post about the obligations under filial responsibility laws. Very few people know those exist and what it would mean if they were broadly enforced.

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Mindy Montgomery's avatar

And also about staffing in nursing homes - much of the work done there is by, you guessed it, immigrants.

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Jack Hopkins's avatar

Indeed...and my mother was blessed with the love and care of several wonderful immigrants.

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Jack Hopkins's avatar

Fantastic suggestion, Mindy. You are right. Thank you. Be watching for it sometime in the near future.

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Cynthia Turner's avatar

Family members are so busy with working and taking care of everyday issues-then life throws huge real issues. I went to college at a young age, began working, and continued my education. I was able to take care of my mom when my family needed me. Other friends and family helped. I also was fortunate to have background needed.

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Life in The Upside-Down's avatar

At this point, you anticipate nearly every thought and dilemma I am facing. It's weird and mystical and fascinating.

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